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Why The Attach Customs Is girls that are hurting. And they’re guys that are letting the shots about whenever it gets severe.

By Rachel Simmons

  • Relationships
  • Sexuality
  • Parenting & Family

Being a relationship advice columnist for Teen Vogue, we get lots of mail from girls in “no strings attached” relationships. Girls describe on their own as “kind of” with some guy, “sort of” seeing him, or “hanging out” with him. The guy might be noncommittal, or even even worse, in another relationship that is no-strings. For the time being, girls have actually “fallen” for him or plead beside me for suggestions about making him come around and stay a genuine boyfriend.

I am worried by these letters. They signify a trend that is growing girls’ intimate everyday everyday lives where these are generally providing on their own to dudes on dudes’ terms. They connect first and get later. Girls are required to “be cool” about perhaps not formalizing the connection.